: DDN: Really? A minute ago it was no sweat for you: "I know all about cars, fixing things around the house, I'm better at this, that, and the other thing." Why is living on your own so difficult if you are so adept at the skills that are required to do so?
the above is an example of how every post on this board is twisted and contorted from what the original writer had actually said. if you people are just going to change everyone elses words around to suit your arguement, you may as well be writing both sides of the debate.
as for your relationship problems, that is nothing unique to women.
men are just the same. i think it is just a matter of people in general feeling out of controll. if a girl(or guy for that matter) knows she has the other wrapped around her little finger, she is in controll. the one who is not in controll is feels insecure, and that is why there exsists the 2 extremes.
it's childish, instinctive behavior and i believe it can be overcome when 2 mature people get together and a balance is achieved and maintained, thus resulting in a successful relationship.
be aware, before you twist my words around, this is only a theory that i have come up with and that i believe in.
kathy.
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