why can't i find my messages where do they appeartell me
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McSpotlight: Messages may be rejected if irrelevant, abusive or just plain lacking in content. Additionally, your message gets sent through to a holding area before being posted to the Debating Room proper - it's not uncommon for there to be a bit of a delay, as the Debating Room is moderated by volunteers - and there can be 200 messages a day to wade through.
Of course, you could be doing other things wrong, things that have nothing to do with McSpotlight?
None.