don't believe this. there are many men who blame themselves for things that go wrong.it's more of a personality type. a perfectionist type to be more specific. the kind of person who always focuses on what they could have done different, or better. usually a responsible type. the kind of person who places the weight of the world on his or her shoulders.
if the relationship breaks up, this person will dwell on what they did wrong. as for the boss messing up the meeting, your alone on that one. i don't know a whole lot of anybody who would work for someone who treated them i this manner.
None.